Monday, September 10, 2018

UPDATE Week of September 10

Chanice and her mentor Kara Freiberg

A GREAT WEEK TO BE A FELLOW

Mathu spent part of his Labor Day cutting limbs at his Host Family's house

LABOR DAY ROUND TABLE

We continued a great tradition of inviting former Fellows to our Labor Day Round Table.

Abbey drove in from Williamsburg!
It was a beautiful evening. We were able to play outside. We cooked up some great food. And we were blessed with Kate Donahoo's worship leading gifts and also Klondike bars which were half price at Harris Teeter! Woo Hoo!

LEADER LUNCH

Lanie brought out all the props!

Lanie is one of my oldest friends and one of the people I most look up to. I love sharing her with the Fellows because she breaks the mold of leadership. 

She doesn't have a list of degrees, has never held a powerful position, never earned a big paycheck - but she has something that most people don't: she can pray. And there is nothing more powerful than that. 

Lanie prepared a wonderful lunch for us, including this Mexican dip that I ate almost half the pan of, then proceeded to knock our socks off...

Lanie came out with guns blazing
Not the coolest Leader Lunch we've had
Aly claimed the rocking chair early
Finding shade
THANK YOU LANIE!
   
MENTOR TRAINING

Bill and Bryan

Bill picked up where he left off and introduced us to mentoring Bull Elephant Style


MENTOR RECEPTION

Afterward, we travelled back downtown to kick-off the Mentoring part of the Fellows Program. 

Laura and her mentor Casey
Trent and his mentor Alex
It was such a treat for me to witness all these new friendships take off. 

THANK YOU!!!

Erika Zimmerman - Abby Holdsworth's mentor
Sallie Harrison - Aly Hall's mentor
Brian Amrich - Andrew Miller's mentor
Alec Sharp - Bryan Pardue's mentor
Kara Freiberg - Chanice Wither's mentor
Jerry Drummond - Christian McConnon's mentor
Paul Allen - Garrett Brigg's mentor
Molly  Lineberger - Kelly Martin's mentor
Casey Henderson - Laura Johnson's mentor
Keith Davis - Mathu Gibson's mentor
Jon Beam - Tim Spangler's mentor
Alex Thomas - Trent Hancock's mentor

In nine months, these folks are going to be so close. What a fun transformation that is going to take place!

HISTORICAL FOUNDATIONS


The Fellows outside St. Phillips

Professor Kevin Frack provided us with his legendary lecture and guided tour of the spiritual history of the Moravians who settled this land and founded the town of Salem. 

Kevin
 Few people can hold people's attention for more than thirty minutes. Kevin held ours for ninety!

(Thank you Salem College for providing air conditioned space!)

Afterward, we traveled up the hill to God's Acre, then down through the bakery to break bread with each other, then through town center down to St. Phillips the first African American church in Winston-Salem.

Mathu Gibson's going to play a part in the change we are going to see in this city. You heard it here.
 We prayed on the bricks and closed out a wonderful day with lunch downtown.


WEEKEND ACTIVITY

Several of our Fellows were introduced to their congregations on Sunday morning. All of them started volunteering at Youth Group

ARo went to her first youth group as a sixth grader. All went well except she chipped a tooth! Great Ooga Booga!

JP Flynn was my date at the Love Out Loud Vision Night

That's not JP. That's Chester

LOGISTICS

getting there

There is a lot that's been accomplished in the last few months. THANK YOU for all your help!

This is always a good day when the board gets full!

FINANCE

Full of hope...yet there is no pot of gold at the end of the Fellow's rainbow!

We are continually thankful for the generosity of this community toward the Winston-Salem Fellows. If you are ready to make your contribution, send checks to

Winston-Salem Fellows
851 W. 5th St.
Winston-Salem, NC 27101

or give on line at wsfellows.com/give


LOOKING FORWARD

ROUND TABLE at Paul and Jennifer Briggs

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE - EQi 2.0 - Ned will be leading a learning module for the Winston and Greensboro Fellows Wednesday afternoon at Habitat for Humanity (thanks Mike Campbell!)

CENTER FOR CREATIVE LEADERSHIP we will continue our week of Professional Development with a two day seminar with the Center for Creative Leadership in Greensboro. Always a fun-filled experience!

HURRICANE FLORENCE - We will hopefully NOT be celebrating our first hurricane together!

HOPE and REDEEMER HIGH SCHOOL YOUTH TRIPS this weekend!


Ames and David got robbed in the egg toss

A valiant effort

The Aly Hall

Dave Dave cheering on the Deacs with his good manners

St. Phillips
  
Mathu and Garrett
Once again, keep sharing the story and spreading the love!!!



Monday, September 03, 2018

UPDATE Week of Sept 3

One week in and I'm barely hanging on...

Ha! Appearances can be deceiving!

A GREAT WEEK ONE WITH A BIG SURPRISE MIXED IN

First day of work was Monday for the Fellows.

Check out this line-up:

Big Brothers Big Sisters
FLOW Automotive
Forsyth County Government
Chik-fil-a
Boosterthon
Institute for Regenerative Medicine
Breakthrough Sports Physical Therapy
New Canaan Society
Love Out Loud
The Budd Group
Forsyth Country Day School
Novant Health

Thank you to our employers. The Winston-Salem Fellows is a professional and vocational development program - we wouldn't fulfill let alone exist without your partnership!

Here is Caleb, last year's New Canaan Society employee and Christian, this year's New Canaan Society employee!

At Round Table on Monday, it was fun to hear everyone's stories. You could tell that after orientation, a full weekend, hundreds of new faces, and a brand new job - these fellows were exhausted.

I shared this note that night...

Take a breath.

A lot of times at the beginning of a race when the gun goes off and all the people are around me, I’ll get swept up in the action and start faster than planned. It will feel good for awhile and the thought may even hit me that “Hey, today might be my day. If I keep going at this pace, I’ll set a PR.”

But sooner or later if I don’t slow down and pace myself, I’ll have that “O crap” moment when I go from setting a PR to do I even have what it takes to finish!

So take a breath.

Take another.

This is a marathon not a sprint. We will be together for eternity. And friends for the rest of our lives. If we do this right, we will have a lifetime of awesome moments. No need to have them all now.

So breathe.

Find your pace.

Don’t run alone.


Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged. For the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.

It's not easy to find your pace...but we're working on it.

Wednesday Leader Lunch with JOHN BOST

John and the Fellows

We spent a wonderful afternoon with John Bost in his "shed."

John was on his A game, providing words of wisdom, deep insights, and sharing some stories I had never heard before, and I'm not sure if I'm allowed to repeat! Ha!

John exemplifies the seamless life.

His story also represents pretty much every sector of work: education, government, nonprofit, commercial development, business, ministry, consulting, and investment.

What a gift. Thank you John!

But Wednesday wasn't over! After John, we traveled over to East Winston to spend a few hours with BILL MCCLAIN!

Bill McClain. My mentor

Bill began mentor training with these words: "Everything you have been taught about mentoring is wrong!"

He then set out to set us straight!

Boy did he.

Thanks BILL! I know it's been a tough week. We're praying for you. But even with a heavy heart, you hit a grand slam home run.

The words on Bill's wall

WHAT WAS THE BIG SURPRISE????

Well.

We have a new Fellow!!!

Meet Garrett Briggs

meet Garrett
It's a long story.

But we are thrilled to announce that Garrett has joined our cohort this year. Garrett is not a Winston native, but he did graduate from Reynolds high school. Afterward, he headed to Virginia to study science at VMI.

Earlier this summer, I had talked to Garrett about the Fellows, but at that point he was looking in another direction. Fortunate for us, the door closed and Garrett gave us a second look. We couldn't be more excited.

Garrett will be attending First Pres. living with the Warrens and we are finalizing his job at the Institute for Regenerative Medicine. Ever hear of the last becoming first? Ha!

HANGING OUT AT HANGING ROCK

It's not as sketchy as it looks

After a rip roaring first ten days, I gave the Fellows a well-earned rest day on Friday.

Actually, first we went to New Canaan Society to hear Lieutenant Governor Dan Forrest speak.

For those who were up for adventure, we traveled up to Hanging Rock State Park for a little fun in the sun.




not sure what Christian and Bryan were trying to spell



I showed them one of my secret spots where you can do some rock jumping...



Afterward, we ate lunch at Priddy's General Store (seriously, the best pimento cheese on the planet). 

Priddy's General Store

Good times

OTHER NEWS!

The Winston-Salem Fellows 2017-18 class had their brick revealed at ABC Childhood Development

Abbey and Morgan wore their seatbelts together

Anna Rose played in her first two field hockey games

And played with wild ponies


as did her mother...

and her brother...
I was left searching....

then it was David and I both searching

I was nervous we were going to be taken this fella home! I'm not even kidding!!!



Saturday was a special time at the mountain with our dear old friends the Illingsworths


 FINANCIAL UPDATE

Thank you for supporting the Fellows. If you are interested in joining the effort, send checks to

Winston-Salem Fellows
851 W. 5th St.
Winston-Salem, NC 27101

or give online to wsfellows.com/give

As always THANK YOU!


LOOKING AHEAD

Monday - ROUND TABLE - LABOR DAY ALUMNI SPECIAL! We are throwing a good old Labor Day Round Table with Fellows young and old...

Wedensday - LEADER LUNCH with LANIE EHLINGER! The Fellows have no idea what they are getting themselves into! Ha! Then, Mentor Training with BILL MCCLAIN. 

THEN! FELLOWS MENTOR RECEPTION AND KICKOFF! This is the moment the Fellows get to officially meet their mentors! Woo Hoo! Another one of my favorite moments of the year!

Friday Morning - HISTORY OF MORAVIANS AND SALEM with KEVIN FRANK. 

Friday Afternoon - FREEDOM RIDE with TERRANCE HAWKINS

This is a REALLY GOOD DAY - I almost wish I could sell tickets!

Saturday - Wake Football First Home Game

Sunday - Love Out Loud Vision Night AND Mission Emanuel Vision Night - we are double dipping!!!




Life is sweet. 

Thank you friends for spreading the love and sharing the good news. 

Hi Ho Here We Go!!!